by Nothing makes me happier than to spend a day with archives and collections. I was exploring the Manuscripts and Archives Division of the New York Public Library this summer. (Thank you very much, Thomas Lannon and Tal Nadan.) Among other things, I went through some of the Francis J. Schneider records of marriages, who “was known as the ‘marrying parson’ for the nearly 20,000 marriages he performed from 1869 to 1906.”
Apparently he’d marry anyone, no questions asked, so I was looking to see who’d pop up, like an interracial marriage perhaps. I’ve only looked at a few volumes so far, but I saw that it was pretty rare for a man to marry someone older in those days, and maybe the only reason this guy did was because his profession (undertaker) may have made it harder to attract a spouse? But of course he could have been marrying for love! Notice how they have a space to list the profession for the man but not the woman.
The shot below is of the diary of Elizabeth DeHart Bleecker, aka Mrs. Alexander L. McDonald, and the entries go from January 1, 1799 to January 11, 1806. There’s a description of the shooting and subsequent funeral of Alexander Hamilton. “Thursday, July 12th, A Fine day — General Hamilton is still alive, but no hope of his recovery … about 2 o’clock the great Hamilton died.” There’s more but I’m having a hard time with her handwriting (always a problem with these things).
(The collections at the New York Public Library are IMMENSE, you might start here. I always like to to look at the list of what they’ve recently added.)
Okay, I’m embarrassed to admit this, but one of my favorite time-killing habits is to check out celebrity marriages (and the respective ages of the partners). Weirdly it’s given me a real appreciation for British and BBC male stars who often seem to marry older women–check out James McAvoy as a case in point! I also track how old women are when they have children. Really, Helen Fielding, you had kids in your mid- to late forties? How? She must have been exhausted.
Okay, now you know way too much about my fascination with celebrities and age.
Hahaha. I adore James McAvoy so I have to google his wife now, ah, nine years older, this makes me like him even more.
Stacy,
You and me both. James McAvoy makes me very happy.
And of course his wife Ann-Marie Duff is awesome; if you haven’t seen her in “The Virgin Queen” you’re really missing out!
I will now look for it and watch it!
Okay, yes, I read too much OMG!Yahoo, but here is another one for you: actor Chris Hemsworth, 31, wife, 37:
http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/chris-hemsworth-enjoys-day-on-beach-with-family-adorable-picture-20142710?utm_source=huffpostlive&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=partner
I’ll stop now, I promise!
Haha!