Love Stories
A friend of mine is collecting love stories for a book. Right now they’re appearing in a series on Salon called Americans Talk About Love. There’s two up now, and I read the one from Louise.
Please go read Louise’s story, but also, please, please read the comments (called letters on Salon). I was stunned. I had all sorts of feelings about Louise’s story, and I didn’t see all the hate coming. It’s astounding. Who are these people?
I tried posting a link, but it doesn’t work. Go to Salon and look on the left under Special Features.
The guy that is collecting these stories, John Bowe, did a similar book with his sister Marisa, (she’s the one that’s my friend, I know John through Marisa) called Gig: American’s Talk About Their Jobs. If you’d like to share your love story, they’re collecting all kinds. Here’s their plea on Salon:
We want to know about every type of love in the United States: From rich, poor, left, right, long, short; from Alaska to the Florida Keys. If you think we should interview you or someone you know write us.
Can’t Forget Ream Constance Hoxsie (Hoxie)
I spent last night looking up relatives of Ream Constance Hoxsie (Hoxie). I wrote about her in The Restless Sleep and never forgot her:
The box marked “1921” has several cases from the early twenties including the following four cold cases: … 17-year-old Ream Constance Hoxsie who was hit in the head with a hammer eight times, then posed on a bed …
She was actually murdered on February 4, 1920. I went nuts trying to find her and her relatives on Ancestry.com until I finally thought to look under Hoxie and other misspellings and then I found them. Now I’m on the case. I was already hooked on telling her story but this small part in one of the Times articles really got me.
The District Attorney said the police had informed him that Ream had accompanied her step-mother, Mrs. Marie M. Montrose a professional singer, to fill a singing engagement at a cabaret. He also said that the detectives had learned that Ream was fond of displaying her skill in “make-up,” dressing herself up in various costumes and applying the cosmetics with the expertness of stagefolk. The trip to the cabaret and the play at “making-up,” were done, it seemed, as part of the girl’s training to join her step-mother on the stage.
I just remember being 17, and that sounds so thrilling for a 17 year old. I see a young girl, backstage, all excited, imagining her future, and then hours later it’s all over. Like that.
UPDATE: Ream Constance Hoxie update here.
I wrote that this morning and I just got back from the library, where I was looking for more information about Ream Hoxsie. God, just one sad story after another. Every time a young girl or woman was murdered, Ream’s name came up, plus all these sad pathetic people who were hauled in and questioned, revealing their sad, miserable lives, so much hopelessness and so many unsolved murders of girls. What a story this is going to make.
Onto something happier for now, like practicing Beethoven. I took this yesterday, coming back from Queens. We’re heading for the bridge and the great and wonderful Oz.
I mean Manhattan.
The Universe Hates Me (As Per Usual)
It’s just been one disappointment after another this week. I won’t be sorry to see the end of this week, boy. Good riddance. You hate me? Well week, I gotta tell you, the feeling is mutual.
I did have a nice breakfast though with some of my detective friends (followed by MORE disappointment). I took this picture in Queens somewhere. I never know where I am when I’m in Queens. Long Island City, maybe? But what are these things? Seriously. What is inside of them? They’re lovely! Such beautiful structures in the midst of the industrial park of despair that was this area. Someone designed them. Good job, someone.