From Now On I’m Flipping Coins

December 16th, 2006 Posted in Uncategorized

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I gave this image the title of “Paraboys.” It’s a picture of Charlie Stuart, J. B. Rhine and Gaither Pratt, the main guys on the staff of the Duke Parapsychology Lab when they began.

It was a discussion of the relative insignificance of ESP now, compared to other abilities and knowledge, that sent me into a bit of a downward spiral the other night. Who knows if we will manage to come up with any kind of significant contribution to humanity, history, the world, in the very short time we’re given. We don’t always get to know that in our lifetime. You do your best, but who knows if you are making the right choices at the time that you are making them?? You could find yourself at the end of your life going, “Uh-oh. It seemed like a good idea at the time.” We don’t know now where the work at the Parapsychology Lab might eventually lead, or if ends up being all for nothing. That’s the kind of thinking that freaked me out the other night. Everything I do might end up being all for nothing. Just one bad choice after another.

I guess that’s why people say love is the only thing that matters. Although it seems I am not the good choice maker in that arena, either. (There’s still time, there’s still time, holy mother of God, tell me there’s still time.) But if you have love, it’s something to point to that’s very satisying, even if you manage nothing else in life.

Speaking of choices, here’s a short video taken at the party I missed because I went to the Loser’s Lounge. That is Anne at the end of the table. Anne is fun.

I just realized, looking at the title on this entry, that according to the Duke guys, I can influence the flip of the coins. So, I may think I’m surrenduring to chance, but maybe there’s no such thing. You don’t get out of the responsibility of choosing. You can’t palm it off on fate.

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  1. 4 Responses to “From Now On I’m Flipping Coins”

  2. By Mike Carrington on Dec 16, 2006

    Mom was right: “Just do your best”.

    None of us can know how our efforts will pan out.

    And in the end…it doesn’t matter, because we all die. And nobody’s keeping score. And whether someone’s life is an object lesson of what to avoid or what to aspire to, it’s all interesting. I’m just as taken by the phenomenon of Paris Hilton as I am in Abraham Lincoln.

    Get a little pleasure…give a little pleasure. That’s about it.

  3. By Stacy Horn on Dec 17, 2006

    Good points! Still, I’d rather be Lincoln. But good points. We are who we are.

  4. By Doug Horn on Dec 20, 2006

    I’ve seen far too many eulogies but the goal is to speak briefly of the meaning and qualities of those who have passed. I have never seen more than the briefest comment on matters economic. The emphasis is always on relationships, love, and how they touched are lives, or moved us, or inspired us, in ways that have nothing to do with finance. The measure of a life,so subjective, as varied as is our number, but most would agree it is the relationships we’ve shared and the lives we’ve touched in a positive way.

  5. By Stacy Horn on Dec 21, 2006

    But it’s like the movie, “It’s A Wonderful Life.” Most of us have no idea which lives we touched and how.

    I want Clarence to come down and show me.

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